Illegal Jesus

Boys will be boys?

Posted in human rights, political, the personal is political, women's rights by writerwriting on December 19, 2008

Jon Favreau is young, attractive, and intelligent. It’s a shame that he’s kind of a douche on top of it:

It’s even more of a shame when people (women, especially) brush that photo off with a hearty chuckle and the excuse that “it’s just a party” and “it’s not REALLY Hillary Rodham Clinton” and “zomg he’s so hot!”

Well, hot or not, what he did was wrong. He did apologize and all that good stuff, but really, what he did was WRONG. Blatantly so. To think otherwise is a little shocking to me because if you replaced that picture with one of two McCain staffers degrading a cut out of Obama, there would be high hell to pay. The staffers would likely not be employed anymore and we’d drag them through the mud because they are clearly racist.

But if someone is clearly sexist? Well, that’s okay because boys will be boys. It was a party! They’d had a few beers! Yeah, he shouldn’t have taken the picture, nor should he have posted it on his Facebook. But no one got hurt, so it’s not a big deal.

EXCEPT THAT IT IS A VERY BIG FUCKING DEAL. Let’s say that the HRC cut out was an actual woman. Everyone’s a little drunk, someone has a camera, and they all pose for ridiculously stupid pictures they will post all over Facebook. Let’s say that a couple of the guys in a few of the pictures gives the girl a few drinks, holding them up for her while another guy puts his hand on her breast. She doesn’t really mind because it’s all in fun.

But then later, it happens again, only without a camera and she is no longer feeling fun. Or maybe she is and she just doesn’t want to be touched. She rebuffs a guy. He doesn’t really back off. He reminds her about the pictures they all took earlier and he goes in for a grab or a kiss. It’s loud at the party and everyone is drunk and no one is surprised to see a couple groping on the couch.

Only it isn’t a couple groping. It’s a guy sexually assaulting a woman.

It doesn’t fucking matter that the HRC represented in that picture wasn’t real. What matters is our response to pictures like that, and in response to violence against women in general. It is not funny, it is not cute, and it isn’t something you fucking joke about.

I’m ashamed of Jon Favreau and even more of the Obama camp for blowing this off so completely.

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